Levi and I were having breakfast together today. He ran out of grapes and screamed until I gave him more. The fourth child (well, and the third): they scream to get what they want. It works, so why learn language? My first born, Caleb, wasn't a screamer. Why? Because, like any mom who loves her child, I taught him sign language. When he wanted more, he quietly signaled for more. It got me thinking how much has changed, going from one child to four. I've officially lost control, people. My one child looked cute all of the time. His clothes always matched, and he had style. My four kids literally look like orphans. Levi's clothes have been through three boys before him (my nephew and two older boys). Chloe never matches (and I am not even sure she has clothes available that match). Their hair may or may not be brushed. They may or may not arrive at destinations with shoes. I once took Luke to the bathroom at a re...